As an introvert, how can I develop intimate relationships with friends and partners?

The loosening of restrictions for social distancing in recent few weeks in Hong Kong enable many people to enjoy large-group social gatherings. People who are enthusiastic about socialising start to publish posting of their parties in social media. However, for those with more introverted tendency, seeing these posting may trigger their self-doubts about lacking belongings …

Can we really know if someone is a good or bad person?

Since our childhood, we normally learned from our parents that who was the good person and the bad person in a movie?  For instance, we might perceive the murderer of a movie to be the bad person or the police who arrested the criminal as the good person. As we grow up, we started to …

Are you ready for pursuing a life after the temporary suspension due to the 5th wave of the pandemic?

Due to the loosening of restrictions of the social distancing measures recently, many of our normal activities, such as schooling, working in the office, or dining out for dinner, resumed gradually.  Some people may easily resume a normal life with minor adjustment after a long restriction.  For other people, whose lives are greatly affected due …

Do we actually know if that particular friend dislike us?

In my clinical practice, it is quite common for some of my clients to be so sure about their perception on their family members or friends.  For instance, some of my clients insisted that they knew one of their friends disliked them by some vague gestures they showed during social gatherings.  With this thought in …

Our struggle with gratitude in the face of the pandemic

This year’s Easter is a special holiday because we are still under the restrictions for social distancing due to the pandemic.  Indeed, we may also look forward to the gradual release of the restrictions after Easter and prepare ourselves to resume social gatherings and normal activities, such as resuming to go to the gym or …